2021.10.16 05:32 twinkletoesthepoppet What do I do when my 12 week old kitten decides he too good for his litter box?
2021.10.16 05:32 COACHBIGPETE BREAKING ANNOUNCMENT: #IHSA "Pumpkin Spice Doughnut Coach Of The Night In Illinois Award" Fall 2021 Season For Week 8 2021 Is Erie-Prophetstown Head Coach Jesse Abbott Congrats Coach & Erie-Prophetstown Team On The Huge Win
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2021.10.16 05:32 DailyComet Sparks - Equator
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2021.10.16 05:32 Psychological_Pin480 If you were a video game Character what would be your stats?
2021.10.16 05:32 vintage_shelves It’s all happening so fast.
My grandmother (71f) was diagnosed less than two months ago with Stage IV cancer on her liver, brain, bile ducts, gallbladder, lymph nodes. The day before her diagnosis, she was jogging five miles a day. It’s been incredibly fast-acting. Within two weeks, she was bed-bound. Slowly, she’s lost every other ability. Fortunately, our entire family has been able to rally, work from home, and move into the family home for the remainder of her days. I couldn’t be more grateful that we’ve had every opportunity to ask questions and say what we need. I know this is a gift.
We’ll be entering the active phase any moment now. I fed her her last meal, a cherry popsicle, about a week ago. At this phase, she can manage small sips of water to mitigate the taste of morphine/ativan doses. Her arms and legs are starting to go cold. I can snuggle her and kiss her and tell her I’m with her (and turn her a little to apply some cream to the bedsores). I stay up with her at night so she isn’t alone. When she sleeps, her breathing is 30 seconds on, 30 seconds off. Her blood pressure has started to decline.
To see this woman, the strongest person I’ve ever known, dwindle so swiftly… It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and will ever do. This woman is my hero. She’ll die with some of my secrets, and I’ll die with some of hers. She is so selfless, patient, reasonable. She’s been the sturdy oak in my tumultuous family dynamic. And she’s so fucking young.
She had her rally about a week ago, when it was just my mother and I here. It lasted three days, and at one point she was speaking with her whole voice. Now the topsheet that serves as her blanket is feeling heavy.
I love her so much. I’m not ready for her to go, but I made it clear to her that she can leave whenever she is ready. The waiting is painful. Watching her get impossibly and increasingly worse hurts so much. I keep scouring the internet for timelines and information, but ultimately I know she’ll go when we least expect it. Her care has become a piece of my routine. I’m so selfishly scared of the rug that is about to be ripped out from beneath me. I’ve almost stopped grieving - My brain has accepted this as my new normal, and I’ve stopped anticipating her death. I’m not ready for the reality check around the bend. I’ve never lost anybody before. I didn’t think she would be first.
Thank you for letting me share. I just needed to expunge a little bit.
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2021.10.16 05:32 Goatman_Jack Hairdryer that looks like a Magnum revolver.
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2021.10.16 05:32 Superb_Job5270 Two childhood best friends…they might kiss ╲ʕ·ᴥ· ╲ʔ
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2021.10.16 05:32 Jamesinthemiddle Total Warhammer 2: The Gor Rok Experience
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2021.10.16 05:32 purplemonkeyshoes Changing step level of an offer that's on hold
I've got an unusual situation and could use some advice. I've got 10 years service in private sector but last week I got my first fed position offer. Got the TO and then negotiated up several steps to slightly beat my current salary. Got the FO and accepted it and agreed to an EOD in December. Then I told my current boss that I was quitting. They freaked and offered me a 20% raise if I stay so I agreed. So then I told the gov job that I changed my mind and wanted to stay at my current job. The hiring manager said they'd be willing to leave the position open for a few months in case I change my mind.
I'd rather take the gov job, but the extra pay for staying at my current job is enticing. But what I'm wondering is now that my salary is 3 steps higher than what was in the FO, do you think I have any chance of renegotiating my salary if I decide to go back to the gov job since they're leaving it open for me? Or am I locked in to the salary I agreed on in the formal offer?
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2021.10.16 05:32 tcrowne33 Do I Start Cousins or Sam Darnold? 14 man PPR
2021.10.16 05:32 CryptoWeedys Crypto Weedys Price Drop 🔥! 0.006 ETH just for 24 hours! | Links in comments
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2021.10.16 05:32 askreddit760 Has your mother ever tried to poison you? Why or why not?
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2021.10.16 05:32 Onlyheretoreplylol Loving giving my woman my surprise love juice 😜😜😜
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2021.10.16 05:32 Pinecraft246 I got refered here. Hopefully one of you guys could help me out.
2021.10.16 05:32 luna-marea Twenty (or Ten) Years Now Lost
This is for anyone who's in a relationship that makes them feel like garbage.
Take this as your sign to leave. Take Wednesday's full moon as a beacon to a new beginning. Take a cold front, take a bird on your lawn, take a scuff on your shoe, take anything at all. Just go.
I spent thirteen collective years begging for respect and love that I didn't think I deserved in the first place. As I was being shouted down for not making the bed at 3 AM, I told myself I deserved it. As I sat alone at home while my partner stayed out late, happier without me, time and again--took picture after picture with prettier girls than he thought I was, though I beg to differ--I told myself I deserved it. After all, if I didn't deserve it, would I be so used to it? If I deserved better, wouldn't I have earned it by then?
If you have kids, and you say you're staying for them, don't. Would you want your kids to grow up with a relationship like the one you have? Contentious, deceptive, cold, always a struggle, chaotic, disrespectful? Because that's what you'll teach them is normal.
That's what I learned is normal. I learned that I had to do it all, that I had to earn love and attention and just presence, so I looked for people who needed me but didn't love me. I became a maid, a chauffeur, a therapist (that part I enjoy, to be honest), a crutch. First there was "Danny." I cooked all the time, but it was never right. I did his laundry; that wasn't right either. I worked; I didn't work enough and wasn't ambitious enough. I cleaned; I didn't clean well enough or often enough. I listened; even that, I didn't do right. He cooked sometimes, occasionally did his own laundry, worked for a hot minute before getting fired, and only cleaned when he said the mess was mine, and glowered the whole time. He put me on his credit cards so I would pay for them (and had to pay them, or else risk ruining my credit).
Then came "Gary." Gary couldn't communicate if his own feet were on fire. He moped at me for months about what a nice guy he was, god, why does every girl he's ever been interested in leave him to find Mr. Right? I gave Gary a chance. I thought we had great chemistry. Haha, we did not! It was my anxious attachment style, equating Gary's distance and lackadaisical manner with He is The One For Me. I spent days upon days cooking for him and caring for him, and in return I got told after a traumatic event that I was too anxious and that it was annoying. Only his feelings mattered. Mine were a pain, or more frequently, an attack: on his honor, on his peace, on his sense of manliness. I tried so hard to be happy.
By that point, I thought that feeling that shitty all the time was normal. It's just the way it goes in a relationship. It's hard work, right? Hard work to earn that love and respect, hard work to try to phrase your feelings exactly right so it doesn't start an argument, hard work to live your life and pick up after him at the same time. That's not what the hard work should be. The hard work shouldn't be in competition against your partner. It should be with your partner. Obviously you're not always going to agree--on what to do, where to go, how to spend your money. But you should have respect for each other's viewpoints and opinions.
If respecting your partner is hard work, they're not the one. If getting respect is hard work, they're really not the one.
If any of this sounds familiar to you at all, if you can relate to any of these shitty experiences, run. For the love of all that's holy, put gas in your car, pack a toothbrush and floss and spare underpants, make an appointment with that lawyer and just ask what it would cost to be without this person around you all the time who's slowly sucking the fucking life from you like a tick behind your ear.
Leaving will cost money, but you can and will earn more money. You can't and won't earn the time back.
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2021.10.16 05:32 rai_senso Straight snap build. Looking good so far. Only need to apply those uber tiny decals.
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2021.10.16 05:32 victoriuwuu How many accidents a week would be okay to not have to wear pullups anymore?
This is weird and embarrassing to talk about because I’m 13 so please don’t make fun of me too much.. but for as long as I can remember I’ve had bed wetting problems,(during the day too but only if I can’t make it to a restroom) I’ve had multiple doctor visits for it and I’m actually seeing a psychiatrist for it now. The medication Im taking for it is an antidepressant or something I think but it makes me like really mad when I take it so hopefully I can get it changed. I’ve been trying a lot of just natural things to not do it as much and I’m down to like three or four accidents a week at night and maybe one or two during the day. it was almost every night before I started trying stuff on my own. I got in a huge argument with my mom last night though because I Hate! Wearing pullups omg. If I’m down to a few accidents a week I feel like I shouldn’t have to wear them all the time? If it’s not happening more than it happens it just doesn’t make sense to me? But she’s talking about like if it only happened once a month it would be okay to not wear them. I can’t even imagine doing it that little tbh. She’s crazy! How often would a normal person say is okay to not have to wear them? Andd is it legal to like not be allowed to wear anything over them at night?? Because I have to get ready for bed around 7 but most of the time I don’t even lay down until like midnight because my adhd meds.... so thats a long time to not be wearing clothes just to make laundry a little easier right? I kinda feel like she’s just trying to make it embarrassing tbh. But idk if that’s how it’s supposed to be or not? I was really close to not having to deal with that but last weekend we stayed the night at my moms friends house.. her daughter is a couple years older than me and they were trying to get us to hangout(I don’t like her) But anyways I was wearing sweatpants and lied about having one on under them which would have been fine and all but I fell asleep on one of their new couches and freaking peed all over it. And they actually got really mad about it though because it was like 4000 dollars and it’s a light color. it sucked so bad because I had to clean it in front of them and her little brother IN NOTHING BUT A PULLUP because my clothes were soaked so she made me put one on and I was crying so it was just a mess. Plus she had to add that her friends kid was half my age and he wouldn’t even have done that...Yay mom. So I’m pretty sure half the reason for not wearing anything over them is because she just wants to see it and that makes me even more mad. But the main reason I’m venting now is because I was talking to my “friend” about it after it happened and she asked if I pee in them sometimes just because I’m wearing them and it’s easier because she said she totally would if she wore them and I was like well yeah all the time(like a funny thing idk but sometimes yeah) and she told her mom that so it got back to my mom.. soo now I’m I’m in trouble and she told me to not get dressed in the morning because I’m gonna stay ready for bed all weekend and I’m not allowed in my room like what?? I really didn’t mean what I said like that 🤦🏼♀️
Sry for venting): but can I report her for this??
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2021.10.16 05:32 kansai2kansas Streak 76 — j’étudie tellement
J'ai fait la grasse matinée jusqu'à 11 heures aujourd'hui.
À 13 heures, je suis allé étudier à la bibliothèque pendant quatre heures.
Ensuite, j'ai pensé aller manger à IKEA mais j'ai changé d'avis car j'avais envie de manger un plat vietnamien à ce moment-là. Alors, je suis allé au restaurant vietnamien et j'y ai mangé un sauté de citronnelle avec du tofu.
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